See best in people but be prepared for worse
People are interesting. This is a simple sentence with a complicate meaning. It means that people have more than just one face. Many of them think of one thing, talk about the other, but do something completely different. Because of this, some of your friends or family members can hurt you. Because you respect and love those people, this hurts even more. This isn’t something you can avoid. We are just humans, so we all cannot resist to our desires. Sometimes our desire is bad for other people, but it is irrelevant.
Because we are who we are, you must be prepared for worse. Don’t expect too much from people. In fact, don’t expect nothing. Only when you are 100% sure that a person is good and honest, you can tell him/her your secrets and know that person will be there for you. Of course, not all people are like this, but many of them are! If you think that this isn’t true, think again. How many times you were hurt by a friend?
When you don’t expect nothing, you don’t want anything from a certain person. Because he or she won’t give you anything (even when you want) you are safe. I am not telling you that you must be a bad person or do bad things. You must we who you really are, but you must be careful and smarter than other people. Never give them satisfaction that those people can use you. You are a strong person and you have your own rules. All other people must respect you and your rules.