Yin and yang
Every person has something that he wants to change about himself. This is completely normal. You and me, we both would like to change something that is usually related to how we act, or how we think. Well, we cannot change ourselves! In general, people cannot change themselves. They just want to change their personality, so bad, that eventually those people start believing they are a different person!
The truth is, they are the same, just pretending in regular situations. In first stressful situation they get, they will show their real face.
Luckily, there is one trick you can use, that can help you be a better person. If you are sad, because you cannot change anything about you, try Yin-Yang solution. You probably know that Yin-Yang means everything good has something bad, and everything bad has something good (simplified explanation). You can apply this to your personality. Simply divide all what you hate, and all what you like about yourself. You will get 50% of your good personality and 50% of your ‘’don’t like ‘’ personality. Obviously, you cannot delete one of them, but you can control them easier on this way. This ‘’bad’’ half, contains something that you can use in your life (skill, experience and etc.), so, you must use it sometimes. The same situation is with good half. But in this way, you can choose to use your better half when you want. Soon, you will start thinking you are a better person! This is linked with almost anything. If you have a high opinion about yourself, you have motivation, confidence and desire, which are linked to happiness and success!