HOW BEING ASSERTIVE WILL MAKE YOU SUCCESSFUL
The term “success” has become a cliché in the 21st century. While the word “success” did not assume a wider usage, getting the attributes for one to be successful has eluded many. The promise that comes with success, things such as good cars, a lavish lifestyle, and nice homes can only be achieved if one has the following takes into account the following factors.
Success starts with you, knowing when to say no and yes is very important in making you life successful. I refer to this as “Truth” while its generally referred to as assertiveness. Never be afraid to say no, you will be amazed by the number of people who are afraid of saying no to someone. That said ensure that you practice the art of saying yes and no on a day to day basis so as to prepare yourself to say no in situations which requires no and yes in situations that require a yes answer.
Know What You Want
Assertiveness is preceded by “knowing what you want.” This attribute is important in helping one to be successful in life. Many people tend to have several things going on at the same time and as a result they tend to achieve very little. Stick to the min picture and ensure that you achieve it.
See Failure as Success Masquerading
In life you should never stop trying. Failure should not be looked at as scary nor dangerous thing. How we view failure has been noted as one of the huge problems on the road to success. It is advised that you look at failure as a learning process given that failure only serves to remind us that there is another outcome for whatever we had initially planned for.