How to Deal with an Abusive Person
You may have observed that even the most rational people sometimes end up using abusive languages at the workplace and home. This usually happens in extreme situations. However, there are certain people who are in the habit of being abusive. At the slightest provocation, they start using the swear words. If there is such a person you know, you may also be wondering how to deal with them.
The best way to deal with such people is by paying no heed to them. For instance, you get trapped in a situation where the other person has started abusing and you don’t know what to do next. Remember that retaliating with more abuses will not help the situation. Instead, maintain your calm and let the other person blurt out whatever they can. Of course, this is much easier said than done. But the point is that if you don’t want to have the same reputation as them, you will need to learn the technique to keep yourself cool in such a situation.
If the person is getting completely out of control with the abuses, instead of confronting them, it is better to flee the scene. Some abusive people do not stop unless they have said everything they could. Most of these people do such thing because they are looking for attention.
When the situation is more peaceful, make sure that you talk it out with the abusive person. You will need to be assertive and yet graceful while talking to them. They should not get the feeling that it has affected you in any way. Talk as if it is for their good that they change.